Fighting Issues of Siblings

Fighting Issues of Siblings


Where there are siblings, there will be of course a lot of reasons to have fight and conflicts with or without any reason. Besides the age of siblings, the issues of the fight are always ridiculous having no solid base.
Issues of fighting can be different from age to age. Some major issues are,

1: Fight over sharing:

                    With siblings ,there is a major sharing issue. We, as siblings, are not willing to share our love and care that we share with our parents. It creates pangs of jealousy when we see our parents giving attention to our siblings especially after some fight. Although we do care for them but we sometimes are not willing to share.

2: Fight over clothes:

                  If you have a brother/sister of your size and height, then his/her wardrobe is your territory to rule. You do not need permission to wear his/her clothes. But be prepared!
It is a two sided process and the other one can do the same. And usually clothes are the first thing that got banned after fight and these are also the first one to be restored after fight. Sometimes these are also used as a bribe for siblings if you want any favor from them.

3: Fight over gadgets:

                "Mommy! Look ! He is using my i pad." This is one of the most common sentence that we hear in siblings war. Laptops, computers, mobile phones even remote controls are also included in those gadgets on which siblings fight. If one brother/sister is using mobile phone and is also having remote control in his/her hand, he/she is not willing to give this remote to other sibling even though he/she is not using it. This ultimately leads to siblings World War III.

4: Fight over eatables:

               This is some really major issue when siblings fight that they have got less than others even if it is only a little teaspoon. It is commonly observed that sometimes when one is eating something and other ask for it ,he/she usually finish half of the thing in one bite and that ultimately leads to fight.

5: Fight over friends:

            Being an elder brother or sister, one is always possessive and keen about younger sibling's friends. They become a detective while inquiring about it. They think that no friend of their younger one is worthy enough to be considered as friend. This leads to a tussle between younger and elder one.

6: Fight for attention:

            The most common type of fight between siblings is for attention. Siblings fight with each other intentionally or unintentionally to grasp the attention and love of other one. They will tease other, mock others, sometimes pinch others to get the attention. Firstly the attention is in the form of fight ,then they resolve the issue and then they become best friend for ages(although ages last for half an hour only)

             Whatever the issues may be, sibling fight is considered to be the most sweetest and the entertaining one to observe and to tackle. The bond of siblings is overwhelming and it only grows stronger with each fight. It strengthens the feelings and bond of love and makes the family stronger.

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